Gentle, kind, compassionate, comforting. I have refused to welcome this child but he has insisted he would whether I like it or not. It hurts more when I keep finding things out. He's basically frigid because of anti-depressants, so has almost no sex drive. My wife of 12 years cheated on me a while back ago and when I found out she left me for him weeks went by and the guy didn’t want her anymore so she came running back to me being the fool that I’m I took her back things were great for the next couple of years then she started to distance herself away from me I found out she was talking to. Brown, 30, on Friday signed with the Arizona Cardinals, his fifth team in five years. My husband found out about my affair one day I told him I was gong to spend it with an old collage roommate. I work at a hospital and he's a paramedic, due to the every day routine we kind of grew up apart specially since he'd work back shift a week and then I'd do it next etc plus dealing with the kids we kind of distanced our selves from one another, so I met a guy at work and I started an affair with him and it went on for my than 6. torture a woman again like he did to me when I found out he cheated. In just a moment, I’m going to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back… so buckle up, because there’s a lot to cover. 5 years ago I found a naked picture of her on his phone and he 1. My wife had an affair 10 years after we were married and we had kids, but the roots of that affair stretched back over 40 years into childhood with sex abuse, incest, neglect, alcoholic parents, cheating parents, chaotic household, and drug and alcohol abuse (hers and theirs, past and present), and the list goes on. I found out two years ago that during the early years of my marriage that my husband cheated on me. When I questioned him he ended it with me. It hurts so badly. Leann, I am in the exact same type of situation, he was married when I met him 33 years ago but by the time I found out I was crazy in love with him. I been married for almost 13 years. Other Talk - I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago - Originally Posted by Goldberg74 That would put your wife getting pregnant about 21-22. 4 years later, his own brother enlightened me that he had been cheating on me for 4 years. If you’ve recently found out that your wife cheated on you, it’s understandable if you feel lost and don’t know exactly what to do. 7:31 AM on May 20, 2010 I just found out he is seeing other people casually - at least one other person on a semiregular basis. Tiger Woods: Golf clubs he used to win record 82 PGA Tour titles Subscribe to Golfweek for just $24. When I awoke a girl was in the driveway and then when I talked to him again he said his Girlfriend found out and it was all a mistake. NEWS: Want to discover the 7 principles to recovering completely after your wife cheated on you? These principles are the key to your healing – but 99% of men get them wrong or in the wrong order. Feelgood Tour With Club Show In 1982, they sold out three nights at the iconic club, “I forgot she was in there! I think Vince found her and. So I know that feeling well, My wife didn't know I found out. I had never heard of her and he is still. He really seems to want to raise our daughter together, but what he’s done, throughout our entire beginning of relationship. Also I always dream that my husband is cheating on me. Nicholas InSeattle 2 days ago I will tell you all something about Bobby You 'don't know him'He was'extremely' private so there's no way that you could I didnt know him either but I 'do know his hand at Chess I'd been told at 11 years of age that I should play against Bobby Fischer I did not know who he was Much later in life I found out who he. Since either of us cheated. She says he means nothing to her, but this does not make me feel any better. We couldn't find him. I found it very interesting that cheating is on the rise at 80%. I stuck to this rule. But I still feel the hurt and betrayal of it all as if it happend recently. Reverse the break up and get her back. We met and it was an instant connection. It took me 3 years to open my heart up to date. We have been together for 17 yrs married for 2. Four years ago this Thanksgiving, Tiger Woods’ wife, Elin Nordegren, chased him out of the house with a golf club after learning he’d been unfaithful. He had been having an affair with his first cousin from Alabama for the past 2 1/2 years , she is 36 and married with a 6 year old daughter, the 4 days he ghosted me he was in Biloxi Mississippi at the casino laid up in a fine room with her , she lend him to believe that they had a future together and that’s when he outta the blue for me. Drew Thornton said he was working a summer job. He met with one of the women and I found out about it. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now & we have a 3 year old son together. He's appologetic of course & says this is the mistake he'll never make again & made him realize how much he loves me. I had to take a trip last year and just found out that while I was gone he cheated on me with at least four women that I know Needless to say that I am hurt. I started dating my husbands friend from work and have been dating him for 2 1/2 years until about 3 months ago and I found out from some people he worked with that he had been seeing his ex girlfriend from work. If your partner was sexually abused, some of the ways he has learned to cope, or to keep the thoughts and memories of the abuse at a distance, may be “playing themselves out” in your relationship with him. Next, your relationship with your W was not and is not the same since you found out. I stopped the affair. Unfortunately for Reddit user JohnJerrsyon, he’s 46 and just now found out his wife has been cheating on him for the past 10 years and that his life is NOTHING like he hoped it would be when he was in his 20’s. When I found out it had been going on for almost a year. The charge is still pending and his final court date is in the beginning of April 2017. Perhaps because of the time lapse. My mother had a long term affair with the man who was my biological father. To cut a long story short this was really out of character and after many heartbreaking chats/days/weeks we decided to stay together and work out our marriage, even renewing out wedding vows. He was my only one and we were married for 23 years and had two kids. We have 2 children. 2 years later she's talking to the guy she cheated on me with. Clifford Anthony Lee, age 37, pled guilty to charges of. That's very tough and it was an immensely cruel and unfair thing to do to you. He's appologetic of course & says this is the mistake he'll never make again & made him realize how much he loves me. We've been married for 7 years and we have 2 children. It will take some time. Should I let it go or not?. I am struggling everyday with it. But we aren't talking to her boyfriend, we're talking to her, and dealing with her issues, which are a separate thing from his. Find out if he is displaying any of the warning signals described by Raymond B. The dead included 38 adults and one teenager, who were discovered in the early hours of Wednesday morning. He was being extra affectionate because, I assumed, guilt had eventually begun to sink in. My ex cheated on me and left me for the other girl 2 months ago. He cheated on me two months ago but I found out a week ago. Two years ago, my wife and I took in her two half-siblings, ages 5 and 8. we are together and i know that he is not cheating on me. The last A hurt a lot, but the fact that he hid an affair from me for 16 years was the worst. (We are both late twenties) It's been 4 months since I found out and I don't trust him and still think about what he did every day. I have been married for 11 years. We were together for 7 1/2 years total…lived together for 5 1/2 years then he needed a "break"…that lasted 3 months and he came back to me. “I can’t remember, probably some dirty ass nightclub,” the “Slide. my husband had an illegitimate child since 12 years agothrough an affair. But he has fault too: the way he had been treating her leading up the affair. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now & we have a 3 year old son together. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago what should i do ?? My boyfriend and I have been going out for the past year and 6 months. My Wife has been Cheating for 16 Years I Just Found Out about her Infidelity. and was incarcerated for five years. I'm sure I knew deep inside he was cheating, but I overlooked everything. His wife just found out and rang me up. (We are both late twenties) It's been 4 months since I found out and I don't trust him and still think about what he did every day. Brown, 30, on Friday signed with the Arizona Cardinals, his fifth team in five years. I didn't even kiss him, let alone have sex with him. (KFOR/Hearst/CNN) - A man recently found out he has been overcharged by his electric company for more than 20 years, leaving him out thousands of dollars. I was in a messy divorce when I met him, not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. That was 3 years ago. Anyway, he was an ex as soon as I. He has never cheated on any girlfriend before. This may include self-soothing by use of alcohol, overwork, excessive interest in sex or pornography, etc. Hi to any one that can read this comment The reason why i'm writing is because i'm confused my husband had syphilis like 2 yrs ago and i found out i had it 2 because i was pregnant and the Doctor did all kinds of testmy husband said that it happened long ago, when he was in high school I don't know if i believe him i been strug. He is a monster and I love him and hate him the same time. Next, your relationship with your W was not and is not the same since you found out. was with my ex for 5 months when I found out he had cheated. My wife had an affair 10 years after we were married and we had kids, but the roots of that affair stretched back over 40 years into childhood with sex abuse, incest, neglect, alcoholic parents, cheating parents, chaotic household, and drug and alcohol abuse (hers and theirs, past and present), and the list goes on. My Wife Cheated On Me - Question & Answer. Before that we were a nice, happy couple and there were no problems in our relationship. Actually, the partner with established Type 2 should not get Type 1, but the one with Type 1 (whether established or not) can still get Type 2. Marcus: Please I am already in a bad mood I don't need go sekela things I did years ago. A few days ago, my husband found a piece of paper related to my sexual past. 6 Not-So-Obvious Signs I Missed When My Husband Was Cheating. Check out the equipment changes he's made over the years. I confronted him but he becomes defensive goes out every weekend comes back the next day claiming he slept in a friend's house after getting drunk. He said it escalated from porn to anonymous m2m sex at a bookstore. When I found out it had been going on for almost a year. I just got married 2 weeks ago, we've been dating for Five years long distance. A few days later I was reading a newspaper story about a man whose wife was having an affair. the fact that. Perhaps because of the time lapse. Mover packs up client, finds out client is the surgeon who saved his life 32 years ago Share this: Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) They did a test and found out he had two. I found out my long-term partner cheated on me by. I am 23 and found out on Monday that my dad has been living with another woman. We divorced and I. Prior to an event which happened a couple of years ago, I was a happily married woman with two happy kids that both my husband and I adore and place as our highest propriety. I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago I can't believe I am even posting this, but I'm not even sure who to talk to right now. Blamed me, saying I wasn’t giving him enough sex 2. My Wife has been Cheating for 16 Years I Just Found Out about her Infidelity. I found out he cheated on me early on in the relationship. There was this one chick that was hanging out with our group of friends for a bit that cheated. In the summer he told me he's been liking me for the past 6 months but he didn't know how to tell me because he was scared I would reject. I found out my husband was cheating with a neighbor, so I cheated back. He himself is going through a divorce and sought out my wife to rekindle what they had 25 years ago. 5 years ago I found a naked picture of her on his phone and he 1. A cat missing from a family in Ohio will be reunited with their pet next week. If your partner was sexually abused, some of the ways he has learned to cope, or to keep the thoughts and memories of the abuse at a distance, may be “playing themselves out” in your relationship with him. Everyone is capable of being seduced. Watch it before I have to take it down. It's always heartbreaking to find out your partner cheated on you, but what if the episode of infidelity happened years ago? You might not want to walk away from years of a solid relationship, but. Older and wiser, Lopez is more settled down these days with Courtney Mazza, his girlfriend of over two years; they welcomed daughter Gia in September. " Cheating While Dating. Before that we were a nice, happy couple and there were no problems in our relationship. We were together for 7 1/2 years total…lived together for 5 1/2 years then he needed a "break"…that lasted 3 months and he came back to me. I'm sure I knew deep inside he was cheating, but I overlooked everything. Nicholas InSeattle 2 days ago I will tell you all something about Bobby You 'don't know him'He was'extremely' private so there's no way that you could I didnt know him either but I 'do know his hand at Chess I'd been told at 11 years of age that I should play against Bobby Fischer I did not know who he was Much later in life I found out who he. 5 years he has given me no money and he is fighting me for alimony. 2 years together, 2 years of constant womanizing, non-stop, he didn't even take a break. 40 Years Ago: Pat Benatar Breaks Through With ‘Heartbreaker’ He brought the vocalist songs he felt fit the style she was looking to bring to the stage, "The crowds turning out were. Found out my husband cheated on me for a year – not when we were married but when we were dating. About a month ago I accidentally found out from one of his friends that he had cheated on me two years ago (in 2008). I recently found out my boyfriend had cheated on me two months ago and I have chosen to let it go and forgive him. He went to work in another city almost 2 years ago because he couldn’t get one where my family lives. A few months ago I found out I had genital warts. Often, they have tried everything that they know to do to make sure that their spouse can heal and move on. Dear God, Should I Divorce My Husband? Divorce , Fights & Disagreements In Marriage , Guest Articles / 2012-08-02 by Unveiled Wife Divorce seems to be an accepted solution to many unhappy marriages across the globe. Just because the two of you have hit a lull in the relationship, or experiencing some sort of problems doesn’t automatically mean that your partner has resorted to cheating. We see companies in California making mistakes that we did years ago. ) Each is responsible for his/her own sin. After all, you're just finding out. After six years I finally forgave my husband for cheating on me while he was alive. then he told me he wanted a divorce so that is where we are at right now. If anything he is making things worse, because it would be just as devastating to her, as it was to me, if she found out he's lied to her for the last three years. The complexity is that he truly loved me. A few days later I was reading a newspaper story about a man whose wife was having an affair. 1st time was 2years ago, it lasted 3months,then he found out. 13 People Reveal What Happened When They Gave Their Cheating Partners Second Chances. I regret doing what i did but i cant change it, just learn from it. 2 years later she's talking to the guy she cheated on me with. I was in a relationship (for lack of a better word) with a narcissist for 3 1/2 years. It was over ten years ago when I found out. Watch it before I have to take it down. 4 years is a long time for any woman to put up with it. He said found some lady on Craig's list. It took a lot of time and a lot of healing. Now almost two years ago I found out he had an affair with her, sexting her under my nose after we had made promises to each other to start fresh. Do I stay or do I go? If I go, nothing will grow of the affair. (this has happened before and for some reason this time was the only time i took a look at her emails and saw a suspecious email. the gold digger * January 30, 2014 at 2:30 pm I went to ten different schools before graduating from high school. Everything was great at first, we were very much in love. I am still angry at my wife for cheating on me; I am still angry at my wife for cheating on me. There are several issues to be aware of. My husband and I have been married for 20 years. My mother had a long term affair with the man who was my biological father. If you’ve recently found out that your wife cheated on you, it’s understandable if you feel lost and don’t know exactly what to do. I also got hold of his cellphone records. Few days later my husband overheard me telling my sister what happened and he confronted me so I had no choice other than to come clean. CONCORD — Federal and state prosecutors have cleared a New Hampshire State Police trooper of any wrongdoing in a police stakeout and arrest in Lowell, Mass. Last time I saw my papa was 2 years ago. I just want to help you understand that Polygamy is not legal in the Mormon church in this day and age. I just found out her 3 months ago because he claimed that I was making things up in my head. A few days ago, I found out he's been cheating on me for two months. We have a 12 year old daughter. He doesn't want to hurt her because she suffers from anxiety and depression, he worries about her. Yes, Ian, I just found out back in November that 12 years ago he cheated. I feel like my spirit is broken. Usually, people find out their significant other is cheating as it happened, but what if you found out about it happening years ago? We’ve been together since we were 14, got married at 23 and have been married for 5 years. Now, after meeting with an attorney, I found out he is entitled to 1/2 of everything. unfortunately, my curiousity got the best of me and i asked and received details. In just a moment, I’m going to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back… so buckle up, because there’s a lot to cover. The last A hurt a lot, but the fact that he hid an affair from me for 16 years was the worst. two years ago she went to vacation show more i have been married with her for 9 years, have two kids (8 & 4), by accident she left her email account on, on my laptop, that is how i found out. We were together for 7 1/2 years total…lived together for 5 1/2 years then he needed a "break"…that lasted 3 months and he came back to me. Le re tallisa ka. I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago I can't believe I am even posting this, but I'm not even sure who to talk to right now. Ive been iud and the depto shot never in my life i was postive for clyamdia. My soul feels crushed. Me and my 2 hours apart, and I can only sew him on weekends and when I'm off from school. NEWS: Want to discover the 7 principles to recovering completely after your wife cheated on you? These principles are the key to your healing - but 99% of men get them wrong or in the wrong order. I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out. In true cheater fashion, he blamed her when she confronted him saying she wasn’t paying him enough attention. In fact, Polygamy was only lived for a few short years in the church after the Prophet Joseph Smith was commanded to live the eternal law because he had inquired of the Lord about it,. He again said it was a mistake that he regrets it that he ruined what we had already built. Broke up with him a year ago, only to find out that he was cheating on me for the last couple of months of the relationship. I am 39 years old and my mom just told me that she had given a baby girl up for adoption back in 1965. I had my concerns but didn’t have solid evidence of this fact until 10 years into my marriage. So not only was I being cuckold I was humiliated by his knowing that I knew he was fucking my wife. Said it was a one time occurrence. Their relationship ended after 4-6 months. I googled him and found out that 1 1/2 years ago he was arrested for Child Abuse in the 3rd degree. Other Talk - I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago - Originally Posted by Goldberg74 That would put your wife getting pregnant about 21-22. I did some research and found out where his little tryst were being held. SEMINOLE COUNTY, Okla. Apparently, the only thing he was “wrapping his head around” was some new source of supply because after a weekend visit w/my Dad, he let me know that he’d met this “amazing” woman he knew from the gym three years ago and was someone he spent time w/when he was separated from his (now) ex wife. So, 2 weeks ago I found out my husband was cheating. Should I let it go or not?. He stops inviting you out to business events. I found out my husband had an affair on july 16, 2012. "I found out he'd had multiple affairs while he was alive, and one of his girlfriends actually stayed with us for a week when her basement flooded. Prior to an event which happened a couple of years ago, I was a happily married woman with two happy kids that both my husband and I adore and place as our highest propriety. was with my ex for 5 months when I found out he had cheated. I found out a month ago that my wife of 2 years had been cheating on me with my best friend, the best man at our wedding. I found out my husband was cheating with a neighbor, so I cheated back. We have been inseparable since. Four and a half years may seem like a long time, but the DWP had previously been outsourcing IT for two decades. I am still angry at my wife for cheating on me; I am still angry at my wife for cheating on me. Don’t set yourselves up for disappointment by expecting your marriage to return to normal by a certain date. Thirty years ago when someone was dealing with the in fact 2 weeks ago came out and asked him if he was having an affair and he said no. DO get mad… News flash: he cheated on you and for that you’re allowed to be angry. He didn't come clean on his own. Two months after he proposed to me, I found out he had been cheating on me most of the time. I soon found out he was with her the night he told me he was going to some reunion with his brother on law and would be staying in a hotel that night. Two years ago, my wife admitted that she allowed an old boyfriend to have sex with her just 3 months before we married and whilst we were engaged. His wife just found out and rang me up. "Thank god. I decided to leave him but after two months we got back together. Being a male, I’m sure it’s hard to believe. My wife had an affair 10 years after we were married and we had kids, but the roots of that affair stretched back over 40 years into childhood with sex abuse, incest, neglect, alcoholic parents, cheating parents, chaotic household, and drug and alcohol abuse (hers and theirs, past and present), and the list goes on. I would cry and beg him to spend every minute of his time with me. Now, after meeting with an attorney, I found out he is entitled to 1/2 of everything. I decided to stick it out with him because I felt he was going through a mid-life crisis. She merged the call with my husband, and he yelled at me on the phone while she listened. I just found out my husband cheated on me when we were dating [ 1 Answers ] I have been with my now husband for two years total. "He later found out that i had been cheating on him with a friend" i have been with my current boyfriend for seven years now and he proposed about a year ago but he later found out that i had been cheating on him with …. the fact that. Sometimes, when relationships break down, the reasons are clear: they cheated, you cheated, one of you moved away, you drifted apart, you fought all the time, you wanted different things. She has no remorse for what she did, you need to talk to a lawyer like 2 years ago. A Citrus Heights card room is at the center of a scandal that has rocked the competitive poker world, and is now subject of a lawsuit brought by some of its players. unfortunately, my curiousity got the best of me and i asked and received details. I found out by looking through his phone. I also found a bunch of porn movies hidden and and address for another hooker. So my ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago, he said he needed to be single. he didn't dump the first girl, move on to a second, then want to go back - he CHEATED on girl #1, WITH girl #2, and now both he and girl #2 have issues because of that cheating. VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. In the last two years of my marriage I had no self-esteem, so I. I have played dumb for the past two months just so he could get the papers served to him on his birthday, this coming Tuesday. Live by it: "I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago because of cheating. After ten years of marriage my buddy thought he had it all figured out. Herpes dormant for 8 years or cheating husband??? I've been with my husband for 8 years now, he was my very first sexual encounter and I've had none inbetween. I think what you have to do now is wait. Drew Thornton said he was working a summer job. Then I waited. She told me once they started she made him stop because she felt so bad about what she was doing. I found out he wasn’t being faithful and I walked away after 3 years of being together. I am 49 years old, and my wife is 46 years old. Found out 10 days ago that my wife cheated on me with a coworker. We are still married after 23 years and two kids. My boyfriend found out he has a daughter from ex 3 years ago. She thought there was another woman, maybe two. My wife cheated in the past; My wife cheated in the past. After we broke up he would torment me, call me in the late hours of the night, leave me voicemails to come back to him, and many many other things. I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago I can't believe I am even posting this, but I'm not even sure who to talk to right now. , after nearly a year of investigation. Just found out my husband cheated on me one time a year ago????? When I and my son were out of town visiting family well it was when my grandma pass away. He doesn't want to hurt her because she suffers from anxiety and depression, he worries about her. That was 9 years ago. That made my suspicion grow. But first, here’s what I used to get my lady back and I highly suggest you do the same dude, before it’s too late…. Found out about his sexual affair 2 years ago, and same time he came clean with all the cybersexing and the porn (which I thought he left behind after our first-second-fifth argue years ago). The time I went to jail in 2014. If your partner was sexually abused, some of the ways he has learned to cope, or to keep the thoughts and memories of the abuse at a distance, may be “playing themselves out” in your relationship with him. He blamed it all on me. Well I found out June 2, 2008 that I was pregnant, the next day my H confessed to an affair. My boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me 2 years ago and I found out I have been with this guy for 6 years and we have had problems in the past. Right now you are in the middle of emotional storm, the pain is fresh and sharp. He cheated on me two months ago but I found out a week ago. Although it may take time from one stage to another, high-school sounds so long ago-to be honest! First two stages usually last 1-2 years. Comment Link Thursday, 01 October 2015 13:57 posted by Cheated wife I found out a month ago my husband has cheated on me with a woman he meet online. Broke up June 2009 and have been pretty much with each other since, so 6 years. 1st time was 2years ago, it lasted 3months,then he found out. I don't care, He cheated. We met in 1982, when I was 23 and. I know alcohol is not an excuse, but I would never cheat on my boyfriend if I was in the right state of mind. Can I lose my house?. "He later found out that i had been cheating on him with a friend" i have been with my current boyfriend for seven years now and he proposed about a year ago but he later found out that i had been cheating on him with …. He then had her call me on his phone making me think it was him to say this is it. He is telling me he wants to talk about and work on us. I just found out my husband cheated on me three weeks ago, he was having an affair with an co worker for three weeks and end their affair. Few days later my husband overheard me telling my sister what happened and he confronted me so I had no choice other than to come clean. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now & we have a 3 year old son together. Yes, lengthy, but tried to answer any typical questions I've seen on similar posts upfront in the post. Wiki User 06/12/2010. “I didn’t want to borrow or invest a bunch of money starting something up,” he said. I held out for two years without sex. We have been through a lot in our relationship, but we have always managed to pull through. How do I get my husband out of the house, I found out he's been cheating with the same woman for nine years, now he went - Answered by a verified Family Lawyer We use cookies to give you the best possible experience on our website. Two weeks later I also found out she had an affair with someone we know in the community. ) Each is responsible for his/her own sin. He had been texting me very little (we live about 1 1/2 hours away and have both a very busy schedule so we couldn’t see each other more tja maximum twice a week) and when I asked him why that we talk so little he told me he didn’t like texting. I decided to stick it out with him because I felt he was going through a mid-life crisis. That way, he doesn't get off the hook — my husband cheated, went on to make way more money than I do. My Wife Cheated On Me - Question & Answer. It affected him very much because he didn't really know much about it. Thirty years ago when someone was dealing with the in fact 2 weeks ago came out and asked him if he was having an affair and he said no. Five Things You Must Do When Your Spouse Has Had An Affair (Repost) { We are reposting this series of posts today and tomorrow as a resource for you to pass on to those you know who are in this situation. When someone cheats, regardless of what happens next, the relationship is totally different and changed, no matter how happy you two were previously. I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago I can't believe I am even posting this, but I'm not even sure who to talk to right now. And he saved the lives of two of my crew. I found out by going through phone bills he had been looking for almost 2 years. I did some research and found out where his little tryst were being held. 16, 2004 will forever be remembered as a seminal moment in the history of Barcelona. Why does my husband's cheating still bother me? My husband cheated on me a few years ago, and I found out about it (from someone else) about a year after he did it while we were "on a break," and found out that some of our friends knew about it. It's always heartbreaking to find out your partner cheated on you, but what if the episode of infidelity happened years ago? You might not want to walk away from years of a solid relationship, but. It turns out to be not-so-great, and they end it. My husband of 30 years had a gay sex addiction. He called me a month ago (after 2 month breakup) and asked me to come over and I did. When someone cheats, regardless of what happens next, the relationship is totally different and changed, no matter how happy you two were previously. Scorpio Man Personality Traits. unfortunately, my curiousity got the best of me and i asked and received details. A few days ago, I slept with a male friend while my husband was out of town visiting relatives. Thirty years ago when someone was dealing with the in fact 2 weeks ago came out and asked him if he was having an affair and he said no. I just found out my husband cheated on me when we were dating [ 1 Answers ] I have been with my now husband for two years total. I am in love with him, and want him back. This is a long story but I will try to make it as short as I possibly can. First, you will never forget this and nor should you. I've just found out my husband of 20 years has been having his second affair. Apparently, the only thing he was “wrapping his head around” was some new source of supply because after a weekend visit w/my Dad, he let me know that he’d met this “amazing” woman he knew from the gym three years ago and was someone he spent time w/when he was separated from his (now) ex wife. Think of this as a cautionary tale to all of us who are sitting here pushing our dreams and aspirations back further and further. Two months after he proposed to me, I found out he had been cheating on me most of the time. She is a horrible person! I make sure I don't get a raise so he will have to keep paying alimony. The Worst Way You Found Out They Cheated. You had a good one and you messed up. And to the lady who her husband cheated with men, get out girl now. How to Respond and Act When Your Ex Suddenly Contacts You Again. When I questioned him he ended it with me. I just found out that 3 weeks ago he cheated on me. I told him that he was still blaming her for his cheating (well, we fought but I stayed with her for the kids but I wasn't getting any). Tiger Woods: Golf clubs he used to win record 82 PGA Tour titles Subscribe to Golfweek for just $24. My girlfriend cheated on me with her ex and lied about it. Now he is hurt, his ego broken and not trusting me. I've been married for eight and a half years and I have two beautiful kids. My husband was cheating on me and I only found out after he died. I found out that he had. An excellent guide to staying afloat despite the tide of grief coming in and going out.